What If the Seller Paid Your Closing Costs?
Seller concessions are one of the most underused tools in real estate — and they could save you thousands at the closing table.

Imagine you're finally under contract on your dream home — $320,000, good neighborhood, perfect for your family. Then your agent sends you the closing disclosure and you see it: $9,600 in closing costs due at signing. That's on top of your down payment. For a lot of my clients, that number stops everything cold.
Here's what I tell them: you might not have to pay all of that yourself. There's a strategy called seller concessions, and when it's used right, it can seriously reduce what you bring to the closing table — sometimes to almost nothing beyond your down payment.
Let me break down exactly how it works, when it makes sense, and what the limits are. No fluff, just the real picture.
What Are Seller Concessions, Exactly?
A seller concession is when the seller agrees to cover some (or all) of your closing costs as part of the deal. Instead of you writing a check for those fees, the seller credits you that money at closing.
Those closing costs typically include:
- Loan origination fees
- Appraisal and inspection fees
- Title insurance
- Prepaid property taxes and homeowners insurance
- Discount points (to lower your interest rate)
On a $320,000 home, closing costs usually run between 2% and 4% — so anywhere from $6,400 to $12,800. A seller concession can cover a big chunk of that.
How Does It Actually Work in a Real Transaction?
Here's a concrete example. Let's say you're buying that $320,000 home and you ask the seller for a 3% concession — that's $9,600. In most cases, you'd slightly adjust your offer price to account for this. Instead of offering $320,000 with no concessions, you might offer $329,600 and ask the seller to credit you $9,600 at closing.
The seller nets roughly the same amount. You close with less cash out of pocket. Your loan amount is a little higher, but your monthly payment difference on $9,600 over 30 years at 7% is only about $64/month — far less than draining your savings.
That trade-off makes a lot of sense for buyers who are cash-constrained but have stable income and good credit.
What Are the Limits by Loan Type?
This is important — each loan program caps how much the seller can contribute. Going over the limit means the excess just disappears; it doesn't come back to you.
- FHA loans: Seller can contribute up to 6% of the purchase price
- Conventional loans (less than 10% down): Up to 3%
- Conventional loans (10–25% down): Up to 6%
- VA loans: Up to 4% (plus unlimited concessions toward actual closing costs)
- USDA loans: Up to 6%
If you're putting 5% down on a conventional loan, your cap is 3%. On a $320,000 home, that's $9,600 — which is usually enough to cover most or all of your closing costs.
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When Should You Ask for Seller Concessions?
Not every market or seller will go for it. Here's the honest truth:
- In a buyer's market (more homes than buyers), sellers are motivated. Concessions are common and easy to negotiate.
- In a seller's market (multiple offers, homes selling above asking), asking for concessions can weaken your offer. You may price yourself out.
- Concessions work best when the home has been sitting or the seller is motivated to close fast.
In my experience, the best approach is to talk to your real estate agent and your loan officer before you write the offer. We can help you structure it so you're not leaving money on the table — or killing a deal you could have won.
Next Steps: Let's See If This Works for Your Purchase
Seller concessions aren't a trick or a loophole — they're a legitimate, widely-used tool that buyers use every day to close with less cash upfront. The key is knowing your loan limits, reading the market, and structuring the offer correctly.
If you're trying to figure out how much you'd realistically need to bring to closing — or whether concessions make sense for your specific situation — I'd love to help you work through it. Just send me a message directly. No pressure, no sales pitch. Just a real conversation about your numbers.
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